Is your CV available? (Or a short version. Do you have a High School degree? An University degree? Which area? Some work experience before the children?)
My regular advice in life is to read whatever patio11 wrote about your problem. I'm not sure what applies. Do we have a @patio11 signal?
Lots of great advice, and featured here at least five times previously. This submission has the most comments, I think: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3170766